they’re quite cute :3
Get over it and be done with it. Shit happens, the majority of it happening in the most inconvenient or surprising ways, lifes
kinda always been like that so deal with it. Not everythings going to go accordingly to plan but hey, sometimes it may be even better than what you were expecting/hoping for. So try to not dwell on it, lord knows you’ve got better things to do.
Keep in mind that some things are out of your control, no matter how hard you try to take hold of your fate. Some things will never change and to believe that they will with all your heart and with all your being will set you up for inevitable heartbreak. Hell, it’s happened plenty of times. But remember, you can’t say that you didn’t try. By all means keep that head up but please, know when to throw in the towel when presented with a hopeless cause.
Your golden rule/your standard: “Treat others the way you want to be treated”? Yeah, just cause YOU live by it doesn’t neccessarily mean that it applies to others. Through time and experience you’ve come to realize that but only when it’s too little too late and only once you’re in too deep. It’s time to face the reality that people will push you down to raise themselves up, will take you for granted and will by all means manipulate you to get what they want. Bottom line: Don’t hold your standards to others and don’t throw your time and trust out to anyone. Just cause you’re honest doesn’t mean that the next person over is.
The difficulties in life were intended to make you a better not bitter person. Don’t you dare lose yourself again in the face of obstacles. Keep a steady hold on that optimism, that patience and those dreams—-qualities that have both put you in the best situations and the worse. Focus on the “light” of each situation, no matter how dismal; focus on those people that actually care or treat you with the same amount of respect, no matter how many times you’ve been stepped on or abused; and above all: focus on how far you’ve come.
It’s about time that you put the same amount of faith and trust that you so easily bestow on others on yourself. You can do it.